My boyfriend has a confidence problem and I don't know what more to do about it... he never seems like he really WANTS to have sex and he never does anything or says anything really cute to me without me having to initiate it. I tell him this stuff and he knows he does it but he just says that he's not used to being like this with someone. I tell him all the time that he needs to be more confident and there's no reason he shouldn't be but idk I feel like there's something more I could do or say to make him get more into sex and being romantic... any suggestions?