How to cope /PCOS TTC ❤️

Jessica • 24 • TTC Baby #1 💕
Hey ladies!
Like everyone else in this group, I have PCOS and trying to convince... but I have always been told "when you stop worrying about it, it'll happen." 
Do you ladies still believe in this statement? I mean people who don't really have any issues conceiving always say this to me.... so they don't really "understand" what I'm going through. But is there really a way to NOT worry about it??? I want to be a mother so bad and it's heartbreaking each month I take ovulation tests and pregnancy tests to always get a BFN
How do you all cope with wanting to be a mother, but not "worrying or stressing" about it??