Cheating? Or am I over reacting?

Brittany • 🌈 due 3/10/2017

My husband and I had a baby in March, since then our relationships been a little rough, which is expected dealing with a new baby and going from just me and him to 3 of us.

However, the past, I don't know how long, I have been consistently ignored. Anytime we get a free day when our son is at his grandma's he'd rather spend it laying on the couch gaming (he does this from sun up until bed time). He never talks to me, never wants to do anything with me, and it's just been causing some issues. Which brings me to the latest issue that's starting to really make me wonder if there may be another woman or if my judgement is just clouded.

He is a delivery driver at a pizza company. His boss has been cheating on his wife which caused a split and him to get kicked out. My husband informed me today when he was supposed to be working, that he was going to his boss' ex wife's house to pick up his clothes. This later changed to he had to take her clothes to her because said boss broke in and stole a bunch of items. Once again, he was supposed to be working at this time not catering to a newly single woman.

I tried to ignore it. Then because our accounts are synched on FB where he had previously used my phone, I get a message notification from his boss wanting to know his estimated time of arrival. This is after he claimed he was back at work and the production was low so he may be home early. When questioned he said that it probably just went through slow, but why didn't his boss just text him? He only goes through fb if he can't get ahold of him via text because he knows I will alert my husband that he's trying to reach him.

Am I maybe overreacting or should I be worried? I don't have anyone to talk to so I just need some advice or opinions.