I'm not pregnant and I have maternity clothes and baby stuff. People just give it to me bc I usually know someone that needs it but if I can't find someone I put it in my little "someday" box
I started immediately after I found out but I also knew I wouldn't have a baby shower. If you are planning on a baby shower try buying the bigger stuff on your own. That way you're not rushing and spending a large amount of money in a short period of time. I have been done buying for the baby since I was 30 weeks.