what should i do if my boyf doesnt want to have sex before marriage?

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So my boyfriend and i (we are both adults) have been together for 7 months and i feel ready to start having sex because i love him so much and i want to take this next step but there is one problem.... he doesnt want to have sex before marriage!😱 now i never thought that i would wait to have sex because i always thought that i would like to try the product before buying it if you know what im saying... is there anything that i can do in this situation or should i just wait till marriage, if we even get married one day?

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Nothing you can do. You can not pressure him to have sex.

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You can talk to him about it. He may feel the same way and not want to say anything but if he doesn't then you just have to wait. I wouldn't say the relationship won't work because of it. If he wants to still wait and you really love him, you'll wait.

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You either agree to no sex before marriage and build your relationship in other ways, or you end it now if that is not what you want to do. You can't force him to change his mind. You need to decide if you love him enough to respect his wishes and wait with/for him.

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Don't pressure him into it because if you don't wanna marry him then you just made him go against his beliefs for no reason. If you love him and see a future with him then stick it out and wait for it. You can always teach him things and yall can become experts together once y'all do start having sex. But if that's not your thing then that's not the relationship for you.

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really the only thing you can do is talk to him about it, but do not pressure/force him into it. decide if you really love and care about him to wait until marriage. ik thats hard i hope u guys work it out!!❤

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You cannot do anything. If sex before marriage is what you want, then the relationship might not work.

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I waited till I was married.. I didn't care what I was "buying".. I loved him for him and not because of sex.. its more special because he was my first and it was just amazing! It was worth the wait 💜 we've been married for a year now and every time we see each other just wanna jump each other lol

And don't say "you don't understand cause I'm young" cause guess what lol I'm only 20 and I got married at 19 and I'm still happy I waited lol

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Hahaha. Talk about a role reversal. It's usually the guy that wants more.

I encourage you to find out his reasons and if you really love him then you can wait. Sex is different for everyone, but from what I've heard it's good for almost everybody.

Also, if you are his first and he's your first then you get to train each other. Breaking your husbands bad sex habits is hard and sometimes irritating.

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Well first don't pressure him but talk to him about it why he feels you should and how you feel about it just talk

what should i do if my boyf doesnt want to have sex before marriage?

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