I love my husband and I will do anything for him as we should. I don't give myself enough credit for the things that I do I never feel it's enough and I'm not looking for praise from anyone else I'm just putting my feelings out there. My husband is spoiled there is no way else to put it. I am a stay at home wife with no children and he busts his ass everyday for me in a refinery. I can never repay him for that and at times I feel completely guilty but not today. We live on a farm so lots of animals to take care of. All we're here before me nothing I mine but I still tend to them. I do just about everything at home. He will mow the grass and fix things you know man stuff but I cook every night huge meals. He will cook on the weekends because he enjoys it as well but I clean up everything inside our home even after he cooks. He does not pick up after himself but let's face it... that's my fault because I tell him no I'm doing it. If I'm sick he helps me out. He leaves me asleep in the mornings when he gets up for work. I fix his lunch the night before but he does not want to wake me... its just us so my cleaning really doesn't take but a couple hours so here I am watching tv or whatever I please and that bothers me. I feel like I should he doing more some days. He gets massages whenever he wants and I wait on him hand and foot... with all that said I think we have a great system and I feel I do my part and we have a very equal marriage and I wouldn't change a thing about my life!