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I don't know what to do anymore

this summer i am supposed to stay at my mom's house (who i rarely see because she's never been there for me) because my dad is working on building us a house on our own property. as of now, he's only got the bottom floor (kitchen, living room, and a bathroom) done and livable, which is no problem for him to stay in, but for obvious reasons i can't live there with him.

my mom's house is completely unbearable. she never takes me anywhere (i've been here close to a month and have only left this house around five-ish times), she's impossible to get along with, she rarely talks to me, and when she does, she's being a bitch. she and my stepdad fight constantly, and she's cheating on him. plus, i'm pretty sure she's high on something (probably pills because she's had problems with them in the past) all the time.

they're unfair to their dog and never her outside (she's five months and still relies on puppy pads) and all they ever do is yell at her.

my mental health has gone from bad to worse since i've been here and when my mother notices me being upset, she never tries to comfort me. all she ever says is "what the fuck is your problem this time?"

this is NOT healthy environment. i know that if i tell my dad all of this, he'll bring me back to his house (or what there is of it) but there won't be enough room for both of us and it'll be another month or two before the upstairs is done.

should i try to make it work at my mom's or go back to my dad's?

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