My boyfriend and I have been together for three years and are living together. We recently had an unplanned chemical pregnancy. I am devestated by it and would like to try for a baby. He on the other hand saw the chemical pregnancy as "bittersweet" since it wasn't planned and he doesn't think we're ready. (Not married , still have student loans etc. How do I explain to him how upset I am? Is it selfish to ask him for a baby now? I'm about to be 27 and I feel the clock starting to tick! Any advice or words of wisdom?