I've been struggling lately with my boyfriend. We've been dating for a year and a half and moved in together in march. I was being bullied while living on campus by some women in a sorority I was in so I felt very ready to live off campus. Since then I've had unexpected medical issues and have needed some financial help which he did and I tell him all the time how much I appreciated it.  However, since we moved in things have changed in our relationship. We have less sex than we did before we moved in together (barely once a week) and I have to basically beg him to look at me. I've tried to initiate it and he'll say he's too tired and go get on his computer. I respect that playing on his computer helps him unwind however I feel lonely living with someone whos supposed to be my best friend. I don't have friends right now because the women in the sorority were my friends and now I'm scared to initiate friendships with other people. I'm incredibly lonely and don't feel like I can talk to my bf because 1.) when asking me about graduate school brought up how he was concerned I wouldn't make it because of my depression which HURT. When I brought it up again to talk about it he just brushed it off that he didn't mean it that way. 2.) I can't get him to actually look at me and talk to me unless it's after sex or if he's asking me for an ingredient while cooking. He's either on his phone, computer, or watching tv which I can't compete with.