Ok so I found out in was pregnant about a month ago and have told a few immediate family members including my mother. Well she's always teased me about how when she will be babysitting my child she will fill my child up with sweets and sugars. And basically everything completely unhealthy. I've told her numerous time I will not tolerate my child being fed up on unheathly junk food as weight problems and diabetes etc already run in the family and I want my child to grow up healthy but she keeps insisting that "since its her first grandchild she can do as she pleases" how can I make her understand that this will not be tolerated? I do not want to have to completely restrict her from watching the baby once he/she is born but I do not want her to go behind my back and do everything that I do not want to be done

Any help or insite would be appreciated