need some hope
so I met this guy that I work with he is one of the most amazing people I have ever met. but when I met him we were just friends because he was in a relationship. We were talking and I found out he was unhappy. Eventually he realized I liked him and I realized I he liked me as well. I told him that he had to make a choice because I wasn't going to be his extra on the side and if he really was serious about us and really wasn't happy here to make this choice for him. Eventually he broke up with her and it was a little awkward between us for a few days but eventually we started talking texting all day he called me every night we even had two separate occasions that we hooked up just making out. My feelings are so strong for him now but the issue is I have a lot of issues like anxiety and depression and he said that he wasn't sure if he was strong enough for that. Also he just recently told me he only wants to be friends because he just got out of a relationship and it's not personal it's just he needs time to be on his own. I feel so lost it's like I know I should probably leave but I can't because I'm so in love. He would use to cry whenever I told him that I was gone for good that I couldn't be his friend and he tell me how guilty felt and how hard of a decision it was for him. He's also told me that he still has feelings for me and he honestly wouldn't be OK with the idea of me moving on to another guy but he can't just keep me waiting because he saying he doesn't want to relationship or anything in the future. I know he's probably just saying that because at his place and that life right now he can't imagine a relationship but do you think it's worth it to wait it out and see if he'll like me again and we can try something in the future?
EDIT: some things that make me think it's worth waiting for is he told me that I'm a very special friend and his feelings for me are different and that there's more important things to do instead of being in a relationship like he always wants to be there for me with my issues like yesterday I had a panic attack at work and he spent his entire break just sitting on the floor with me giving me water making sure I was OK like I know he really likes me and really cares about me but he just doesn't want a relationship right now I just don't know what to do
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