TTC is ruining my life

The past 9 months have been hell. Today I found out that I will most likely be denied for a whole life insurance policy because I'm TTC. I canceled the physical until I can regroup and figure out what to do. Once they pull my medical records they will see that I'm TTC and also see that I have a prescription of progesterone on standby. I wish I knew a way to get this off my records. This TTC process is robbing me of my freaking sanity. The only way I see around this is to get pregnant have a baby and then try to apply after the fact but there may never be an after the fact. So I feel like I'm screwed