How do I keep up a good face?

Question

I had a miscarrage 2 months ago. The doctor said it was ok for us to try again after I stopped bleeding, but we aren't having any luck. No one knows other than my husband and I want it to stay thst way. Anyway, my sister-n-law announced thst she is  9 weeks pregnant tonight. (I was 9 weeks when we lost the baby) I feel guilty that im mad at her. How do I get over this feeling?

Answer

Thanks for the kind words

Answer

It will take time to heal but you will never get over it you lost a baby and they will always be your baby. Please don't let anyone make you feel like you have to get over it even if they have experience a loss.

When my daughter was still born on 30 December 2015 at 21+ weeks. I didn't handle it very well there was two ladies at work pregnant as well and I couldn't look at them I would avoid them at all costs. I also secretly hoped they would both have boys because I knew I would be able to look at their babies when they where born. Unfortunately they both had girls.

I only began looking at their babies when I was pregnant again, unfortunately my son was also still born on 20 April 2017 at 24+ weeks. I'm copying better this time but it still hurts. My biggest struggle will be at the end of July start of August as my sister in law is due then she was a week ahead of me.

Answer

I think it's just a work in progress kind of thing. You never really get over it. And what surprised me the most is even when you get pregnant again, you will look at other pregnant people and think about how they have never known a pregnancy without worry or pain etc

How do I keep up a good face?

Let's Glow!

The Top Baby Tracker App: Embrace New Beginnings with Tender Care

The Top Fertility Tracker App: Your Path to Achieving Pregnancy

The Top Pregnancy App: Nurturing Your Journey to Motherhood

The Top Period Tracker for Empowering Your Menstrual Health Journey