What went through your head the first time?

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How old were you when you lost your virginity and what went through your head as it was happening?

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Was 15 - lost it at a party , how stupid!! I was doing it too try and fit in cause everyone else had lost theres. Wanted too know what was so special about it... so I let him do his thing but unfortunately he had already lost his virginity and he was what is called a "fuck boy" 😂 . It hurt!!!! It really hurt I was thinking too myself this is the worst pain i have ever felt and there is no going back it must've took about half and hour for him too put it in as I was way too tight😂 was the shittest sex . It wasn't enojoyable at all... I'm glad I didn't save my virginity because I really am happy I got the painfullness out the way😂😂

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"This is it? This is what i waited all this time for?" Needless to say 17 year old me was highly disappointed my first time 😂

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It was in a public place at night I was 14 (i know I was young lol) and you know it was in the heat of the moment and I was like fuck it. Imma loose it someday anyway. So he pulls down my pants and he tries to stick it in. I think he spent a good 15 min trying to stick it in and like 5 min of actual intercourse. The whole time I was thinking "what if someone sees" "am I going to bleed ?!" "Damn I just know I'm gonna get caught I'm so scared but momma didn't raise no bitch" "it huuuuuurts fml what did I get myself into!" Till this day I have a good laugh at it with my bf 😂 sadly people did find out about it and other public places 🙈 so if any other horny teenagers wanna go out & have sex in public, don't ! Cause its gonna haunt you for the rest of your life lol

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I was 20, and I was with my first real boyfriend. We had been messing around a lot but he knew I was a virgin and had intimacy issues, so he'd always ask if I wanted to go further or not. Well he did, and I told him no--and he was like "it's okay, don't worry" and we went back to just fooling around and then my head just switched and I'm like "yeah, no--I'm changing my mind. Let's do this." We did it twice that night and it was as perfect as losing ones virginity could be. I didn't orgasm or anything but that wasn't much of an issue afterwards. 😜

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I was 17, it was my first semester of uni. I was molested when I was younger (15) so I was terrified of sexual interaction for a couple years. The day I decided I was ready I hopped on tinder, found someone to meet that night and he came over. Nothing special or romantic, but I didn't need any of that. It really isn't as big a deal as people make it out to be.

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I was 19 and in my third month of college and I was on yik yak and talking to this guy. Somehow the subject of blowjobs came up and I said I wasn't very good to it. So anyway I went to his dorm and "practiced" giving a blowjob. Then he bent me over and pulled a condom out. I was terrified but it felt ok I guess. It was a one night stand and I don't even know his name. I learned the hard way that next time I have sex... I want to be in love.

What went through your head the first time?

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