My boyfriend of 6 years told me he might be gay?!?!

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My boyfriend broke up with me and told me he Might be gay? I feel like I turned him gay or somthing? How do I move on from this?

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Might be Gay? Haha no he is gay no straight man would say that! You didn't do anything! Move on find someone new. You should still be his friend support him threw this time after 6 years your best friends. Remember a gay best friend is the best!

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You didn't "turn" him gay. That's not how it works. Chances are, he's been struggling with his sexuality for a long time. The best thing you can do is break up with him or open your relationship so he can figure out his sexuality. Either option will be hard, but you don't want to be stuck in a relationship with an unhappy, sexually repressed or confused partner.

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My son's sperm donor (my ex boyfriend and ex best friend) is now married to a man, you didn't turn him. We're in an historical time as far as homosexuality goes, even ten years ago gay men and women were degraded, he's probably just finally accepting who he is. So, you can support him on a just friends level, and have a gay best friend (they're awesome) or you can let him go

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Might be gay?  He's gay if he says that!  And it's nothing to do with you... It's good he felt able to tell you how he felt which means he obviously cares for you.  Hopefully you both can be friends...

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Not you dear. Maybe he's bisexual.. Or maybe he is confused or just now exploring his sexuality apart from what is "normal" (ugh I hate that word lol). In any case try not to blame yourself. YOU can't turn someone gay 🍀

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Its not always easy to explain let alone figure it out. I've always liked both genders but not both sexes. I didn't learn about asexuality until i was 20. So now as far as labels go im a biromantic asexual. Its not always a personal thing, sometimes you just figure things out in a bad time i guess

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I am taking a wild guess that you are quite young. Many of my gay friends were in relationships with girls, even lived together when they were young and in the closet. They put pressure on themselves to please society and eventually the true self comes out of the closet. It's not you, it's him, learning and getting to know himself and his sexuality.

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No you didnt turn him gay. If he is gay then he was born that way 😊

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Well no straight man would say he might be gay.... So he knows that he's gay. Just let him go, it's really for the best. Otherwise, you'll be the one wearing a strap on & doing all the humping. Totally not your fault, nothing you can do about it

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It has nothing to do with you. There is no way that you turned this man gay, he was already gay. Just move and wish him the best for the future.

My boyfriend of 6 years told me he might be gay?!?!

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