I can't do anything! He refuses to be put down he cries and cries and even holds his breath he cries so hard. I can't put him to nap, or in his excersaucer, highchair or carrier. I have to hold him all day long. I have 2 other kids I just can't do that. He's perfectly fine with his dad doesn't cry to be held. Just me! I have to leave the room for his dad to put him for a nap. If I come in the room he goes right back to crying. Or even if he just hears my voice! He's obsessed with me haha but I need to get him to chill out. I have a veerrrryy hard time letting him cry it out. Is there other ways to get him to be more independent? I feel like I've tried everything. My husband started work out of town for weeks at a time and I'm losing my shit lol