Anyone else feel resentment towards women with multiple children?? 😳

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I dont mean to offend anyone, especially women with multiple children, but i often find my jealousy overcoming me when I see a woman with 3/4/5 kids which quickly turns to sadness and anger because I only plan on having one child, and ttc is proving to be a bit tough.

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No, because you have no idea what someone went through to get pregnant abd have their children.

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Why would I resent someone's family ?

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No. You have no idea what that woman went through to bring her baby's into the world. She may also have had difficulty conceiving at one point, multiple miscarriages, stillbirths etc. Do not judge someone when you don't know their story.

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It's people like you that make me question the future of our potential children, and generations to come. How could you resent someone's family because ether have children? How can you possibly feel resentment towards someone because they have something you want? Sheesh. 
My answer: no. I will become a mother to a living child when my body and life allows it. My fertility or ability to conceive is NOT dependant on other people's ability to have children.

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I usually feel sad for them and feel better about myself.

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I'm sometimes jealous, but I'm not resentful at all.  I know one day I'll have my big family too ❤️❤️

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I don't understand why the number of children a woman has is frustrating to you?? I'm sorry you're having issues trying to conceive, but no reason to get yourself down about other women's families. I hope your luck turns around!

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I have four going on six and actually had fertility issues during the process of having my middle children. I can understand your feeling resentment, but also know it's not always as easy as it seems.

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My mom had eleven kids, I loved having so many playmates. Big families are so awesome, hubs and I want six! 😍

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My first confirmed pregnancy was a blighted ovum missed misscarriage for which I had to get a D&C. It took me over a year to become pregnant again. With my first child I spent the entire pregnancy terrified that I would lose her at any point because of my previous experience. With this pregnancy I have had to accept the possibility of misscarriage at any point do to a bleed which only cleared up around my 32nd-33rd week & now they say because of my baby's size I am at risk of being induced early. Just because I (will) have multiple children doesn't mean it came easier to me than it is for you.

Anyone else feel resentment towards women with multiple children?? 😳

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