So my bf and I are in college and long distance. It's not horrible but at the same time it's obviously not perfect. We trust each other so much and that's not the issue. We see each other once a month and most of the time I don't mind since I have my own life and take summer classes, and am focusing on my future. I like that I have a bf there and to talk to. But he works sooo sooo sooo much. This isn't like a real job to pay bills it's just to have spending money. I understand he's busy and after work he wants to sleep but I never get to talk to him anymore. I don't work (like I said I take classes and volunteer to get into med school). But I just don't know if I should stay when we don't even really "date". We have been dating 3 years and never once has he said to me let's go do this or go here for a night yet he makes easily $1500 a week every summer. Half my issue is I want to spend time with him and the other half is I don't want to always be waiting to do stuff with him. How do I handle this?