Discouraged from TTC

ery • Fur Mama 🐱🐶
So I've been trying to conceive for a while now. But both my mother and my SO's mother are against us having a baby. They just think it's too early. His mother thinks that because his sister is also pregnant and this will be his mothers 8th grandchild. While my mother doesn't have any grandchildren. And my SO and I have both agreed that we aren't taking extra precautions against TTC. So no condoms, no birth control, nothing. And I just feel so discouraged. My SO joked with his mother saying I was pregnant and she told him that she hoped not. And I did the same with my mother and she got upset. It was just to see their reactions but now I feel so sad. 😩 I'm not sure how to feel...