I have been married for 3 years to my husband. We have an 8mo old. In our relationship, my love language is doing things for my husband, his is the opposite- talking hugging etc.. I am not a hugger and I was attacked when I was younger- also suffered years of depression from abandonment issues. I have been to tears of therapy and worked it all out but I still struggle with just openly hugging, kissing, having sex. My husband knows this but is always frustrated with me. And since we have had the baby I stay home, he works. I literally do everything to make his life easy. He doesn't change diapers and we don't sleep in the same room because he wants a full night sleep and my daughter has sleeping issues. I'm fine with this because I stay at home. I feel like we have just grown apart. We are so different. And we don't appreciate each other. I just feel like he hates me. I have been just depressed again lately and he just says... I bought you this and this and your depressed? And gets so mad at me. And wants me to sleep train my daughter so we can sleep in the same bed again, which I have been trying.. but nothing works she just screams all night, but he doesn't help me. Not to mention we just moved to a new house... and my daughter is just scared and wants me to hold her all the time.. so I'm unpacking and working so hard night and day I'm just so tired and sad. I love him but I don't know what to do. We are passed the point of talking.. every time we do it just turns into a fight.. he won't go to therapy with me.. I'm at a loss.. I wish he loved me as much as he loves our daughter.