My boyfriend has been really wanting to try anal with me and it freaks me out. Over the last week I have managed to let him put a finger in my butt a couple times, and he is very gentle and sweet about it.. I'm just not sure I like the way it feels. Does anyone have any tips? I try to stay relaxed and think positively. I know it takes some getting used to. Serious responses only, I want to do this for him, I just need some positive feedback I guess. Lol, thank you ladies :)