Although I'm happy for them, seeing things like this still makes me sad. Why me? ****UPDATE why y'all so angry? I clearly stated I'm happy for them. I'm not homophobic at all.

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I think she just means seeing others pregnant is upsetting. I have days like that too. We've been trying for 15 months, with no luck. Started clomid and I see all my fiends posting their pregnancy announcements and I can't help but wonder why I can't have that. Idk why you ladies are being unsupportive... the photo she used doesn't matter. She said she was happy for them but she can't help but ask why not me? I'm sure you all have felt this way before.

I'm sorry you're hurting and I totally know how you feel. I really hope you get your BFP!

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I think that what the original poster meant was that if a guy can get pregnant why is it so hard for her. In her mind she's already seeing so many women get pregnant easily and now for a transgender man to get pregnant is frustrating. Doesn't mean she has any issues with the guys in the photo or their choices. Just venting her frustration.

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I think it's nice! Sure, some of us struggle just to have one but I'm still happy for others.

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Interesting how he didn't want to be a woman, but still took advantage of what a woman's body can do.

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Or maybe she feels like if you wanted to change and become a man why are you trying to give birth.. since some people try really hard to have babies and cannot.. think about it

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A lot people probably thought you were homophobic or transphobic because of the photo you used, I did too until I read it a couple times honestly. I think you were saying that the odds of a pregnancy happening for them are so slim "why not you too?"
I have also noticed that even in TTC forums (all the ones I have been in, not just this one) it is not socially acceptable to vent about how hard it is to not get pregnant. The people who have been trying longer will point out that you haven't been TTC for that long. The people who are new to TTC will tell you some uniformed anecdote about relaxing so it will happen. Assisted fertility forums usually have more empathy.

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This is terrible smh

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Im confused as fuck. How is a guy prego??

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Just a really odd picture to use 🤷🏼‍♀️ esp with the way you wrote it... So that is why.

Although I'm happy for them, seeing things like this still makes me sad. Why me? ****UPDATE why y'all so angry? I clearly stated I'm happy for them. I'm not homophobic at all.

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