I let it slide ALL the time. My man gets off and I always have to go days without it. He doesn't last long and it takes me time. Sure, I can get myself off but why when my man is suppose to assist you know? Last night I had it. We were drinking and kids were asleep. So I came into him ready to get mine. Well he kept saying "not right now" then 2 hours later after I tried for a good 45 minutes, he decides he wants to have sex. I'm already turned off at this point so I'm like, we can tomorrow, trying to unannoy myself and go take care of myself. Well, I start falling asleep and get woken up by him beating off so intensely it was bouncing the bed a little. I don't care if he beats off, but fucking right I'm pissed he gets his AS USUAL, and my mood is ruined and I got nada. I got out of bed and went to the couch and he finishes and comes down and gets an attitude. Oh okay buddy 👌🏻 no more sex. You do you. Call me selfish but when I get mine like every 3rd time  e have sex, but he gets off multiple times a day, there's a problem.