So I'm into the whole little kit thing and I told my SO about it. I have gear and whatnot but he never wants to use it "he wants to do it naturally" he says. Is he weirded out by it or is it just me overthinking it. He has moments where he'll act like he wants to do it but then stops in his tracks as if he realizes how awkward it is. He does like being called Daddy though and how submissive I am but not the other stuff. He is insecure so idk if he thinks I need the gear to feel satisfied or if he just doesn't feel comfortable idk what to do