How to tell of you orgasmed?

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So I'm a 16 year old girl and I lost my virginiry on Valentine's Day to me boyfriend. And we've only had sex a few times and I've never orgasmed. Is there something wrong with me? How do I know if I orgasmed or not?

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Nothings wrong with you!

If you've had an orgasm, you'll feel it. You may want to spend some time exploring your body alone- that way there's no pressure. Having one with your partner really depends- did you only have penetrative sex? Lots of women have a hard time orgasming solely from being penetrated and need additional stimulation- particularly of the clitoris.

If he isn't already, ask him to spend some extra time on you before you start the main event- there are lots of ways to reach orgasm, both through clitoral stimulation and otherwise, and it may take you and your partner some time to figure out what works best for you. But in a fair relationship, he should be willing to slow down and make sure you feel pleasure too- you deserve it!

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I feel like you just know. I didn't orgasm during sex until I met my SO. And I have had my fair share of sex.

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You can definitely tell when you orgasm. I was with my SO for about a year and a half before I had an orgasm...but I can only get there if I'm on top.

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You'll know lol

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One you do you kinda know. Nothings wrong with you. It's new you're learning what your body likes. No worries

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I have only truly what I consider in my mind had an orgasm a handful of times. My now husband gets bummed out because it doesn't happen and he feels I didn't enjoy the sex, but if you think about it, it won't happen. The first time having sex SUCKED, but it gets better from there. I have only had sex with my now husband and we were both virgins, so over the past 6 years of being sexually active it's been fun to learn and grow together without any previous expectations.

How to tell of you orgasmed?

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