is too much intercourse bad in a relationship?

Question

So me and my boyfriend have been together for a while we just started having sex last week but we have had sex every single day and sometimes we even have sex up to 4 times a day since he doesn't go back to college until august and we are all the time together now but I'm scared too much might push him away I'm 1yr younger and this is the most I've had sex with someone and he said I was pretty tight and that he can't get his hands off me I'm scared this might have just turned to lust not love it was going I mean it's better now but what if he gets tired of me and then he was talking about wanting kids when we had talked about us being too young for any I don't know if it was supposed to be a turn on but he came inside me that same day 3 times almost in a row just different hour but now he just gets turned on with everything I do I can't even cuddle with him without him getting a boner

Answer

Just because he gets a boner every time you cuddle doesn't mean you have to have sex every time he gets a boner.

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i wouldn't say it's bad. i feel like that's how it all starts. since you both have just started having sex, it's all still new, so of course both your sex drive will be high and he'll get really turned on. it all depends, but for some, it'll eventually slow down a bit or keep going. you should take it as a compliment that he gets turned on so much by you.

me and my boyfriend was the same when we first started having sex. we would literally do it every single day 2 to 3 times a day, sometimes back to back. even after over a year, our sex drive is still pretty high. he still gets turned on easily, which i find very  flattering, but we don't do it every day. sometimes it'll be back to back 3 days, or every few days.

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That sounds normal to me. The first time my bf and I had sex we went at it 6 times in one day and 2 times the next day... that's how it was for the first couple months or so dyer we started having sex, like 4+ times in a day and even to this day when we're together alone, snuggling or just going for a walk or anything he can't keep his hands off me, and he gets a boner over just about anything I do. I do the dishes? He's right behind me losing his mind. I go to the bathroom? He can't wait for me to come out. Even when I'm a crying mess, once he helps me calm down, we're at it. I'm not scared he's going to leave me cos of too much sex lol unless he doesn't like or want sex and I'm pushing him into it, there was a time I was afraid if I cut back on sex he would pull away, but we have had to abstain for various reasons and he's still right there losing his shit over me every time he sees me. If a guy really loves and cares about you, too much or not enough sex isn't going to send him away, maybe irritate him and cos some needed discussions, but at the point you and your bf are at, that's not a problem. Just enjoy it now cos it'll slow down.

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If you aren't ready for kids he shouldn't be finishing in you unless you are on some form of birth control

is too much intercourse bad in a relationship?

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