What do you value most?

My husband and I are off for the week. He wants to drop our 5 month old off with his mom so we can have lunch alone. He always complains we don't spend enough time just the two of us. My mom and sister are staying in our house right now. I've always been comfortable with my whole family around. I need zero alone time to be happy. Ideally I would live on an island filled with all the people I care about 24/7 lol I especially love being with my son because he's only this little for a short period of time and I want to be in the moment with him while he's little and awake. Not that I don't like time with just my husband, but I currently want my son around and I always love having friends and family around. What is most valuable to you? I know I need to make more of an effort to be alone with him, it's just hard to change my own priorities especially when it's not something that's really causing any type of issue in our relationship. What do you all think?