I am 37 weeks pregnant and we unfortunately went like 6 1/2 weeks without sex due to some life changes we honestly didn't have time/energy. When we had sex again after that dry spell, my labia got SUPER swollen and sex was so so painful! It was like I was having sex for the first time again. We used lube because I was so dry. We had sex a day and a half later and it was much better but still painful and I was still swollen. Anyone have experience with this? Ideas on how to make it less painful? Sex isn't always painful but even not prego it often painful.  I don't ever stop my husband when it hurts though because I want him to finish. It also feels good so I am torn between the satisfaction and pain. Help??