trying to conceive

Me and my husband have been trying for 6 months.  I am already so sick and tired of people around me wondering if something wrong with me or if my husband needs to eat better or not drink any alcohol.  It already sucks and we've only been trying for 6 months!  Why do people have to be so judge mental and jump to conclusions like they do!   Someone in my own family said well maybe if your husband eats better y'all would conceive.  Btw my husband eats just fine besides the occasional snickers or hamburger like any other human being.  So frustrating!!