Is it bad that I don't want to overly involve my hubby in what is going on? We are both wanting our first baby but I don't want to get his hopes up. I tell him what days we should have sex, if my period starts, and I'll tell him if I get a positive pregnancy test. But I don't want to bother him with the negative tests or random symptoms that my mind may have made up. Is that bad of me? I want to keep us trying a secret but if I can't talk to him about all the little things then I have no one. But at the same time I don't want to disappoint him.