**Fair warning this is LONG**

*okay a little background*

I had a one time thing with a guy and got pregnant by him. 2 months after i found out and told him i was pregnant he goes to jail on child pornography. The fathers grandmother kinda took me in after all this and tried to help me cope. After a while shes telling my nurses at the drs appointments i went to that shes going to be in the delivery room with me and even ripped my sonograms out of my hand and ripping one because she wanted to see. Anyways, it was just a sickening situation. Constantly acted like i was just going to hand over my baby to her once he was born. Even went as far as to get a cradle for her bedroom for those "long and sleepless nights with my baby". After weirding me out halfway through my pregnancy i made plans for once my maturnity leave to stay with my mother and away from her to get a break from one another. The day comes, im all packed and in the car roding to my moms for my couple months away *i stayed at my moms my entire maturnity leave* and the grandmother told me im not allowed to go into labor until shes there like she still thought she was going to be in my delivery room after ive argued with her for hours she wont be. We get almost to my mothers and she brings the subject of her being in the room again and so i started my spiel about how i wasnt comfortable blah blah blah and out of nowhere she starts crying saying how hurt she was and how im always so awful to her. This went on for about 10 minutes until she almost rear ends the back of this big black Chevy truck. Then she starts getting mad at ME because i "distracted" her.

Finally im free and have an awesome maturnity leave with my mother and siblings. The day comes for my sons birth and im all hooked up and naked and in walks in the grandmother like shes supposed to be there. I finally get her to leave so i can take a nap after i got my epidural and an hour later, the drs checking my cervix and what not and in she comes again. Only this time, she brings her niece. Im completely naked on this bed, i wasnt covered besides my breasts. I was livid and told her to get the f*** out. She leaves, my son is born and i tell everyone i dont want any visitors the rest of the night so i can relax with my son and bond with him. No sooner does my mother finally leave and i feel like. Im bonding with him and in she comes again, taking him from me, camera flashing in my face and everything. I was too tired to argue so i just let it happen. She finally left and i went to bed.

Next day she comes back right as i was about to take a nap *after she asked to come and i said no* and she holds my son and everything and next thing ik shes on the phone with someone and my sons screaming because he needs to nurse so i told her she needs to leave she refuses and so i said screw it because me son has to eat and started nursing in front of her. Then she shoves her phone in my face telling my son to say hi to "daddy". I was on so much pain meds because i was hurting i told her he has no daddy that hes no child of this pedophile and threw her phone at her. She leaves and i dont hear from her for days.

Ever since shes sent pictures of my son to this pedophile after ive repeatedly asked her not to, keeps calling herself my sons mother, telling my son how "Daddy" is gonna come home and take him from me, and went as far as to ask if id be willing to have that pedophile spend the night at my house!

My mother insists i take my son to see her and when i dont she gets upset and we end up fighting.

So my question is: should i go with my gut and take him from this psycho or do as my mother says and let her stay around because shes "good to him"?