okay but on the real you guys i think that if someone wants to wait to have sex until they are married than that's great you go girl. but i absolutely hate when people give other people shit for having sex in high school or before marriage. i mean i would never have sex with someone i didn't genuinely deeply deeply love and care about, i'm not a one night stand type of person. yes when you get married, it's in front of god and your family and friends and blah blah blah. but god is with you all the time is he not? he knows how much two people care and love eachother. LOVE should be the reason you have sex and want that connection to eachother. not a piece of paper saying you can legally change ur name now.