how long is the talking stage?

Eiraca

I've been talking to this dude I like he was actually my crush and I would never think we'd be where we are now. But now we have been talking for 10 months nothing sexual 😒 we want to but something always comes up and Im a virgin he's not🤷🏽‍♀️ I also don't wanna do that w someone I'm not actually with but yea IDK & ik this all over the place. He's 22 & im 20 btw.