Call it a midlife crisis-but I am just not happy with my job/career.  I have considered going back to school to pursue another field.  Still trying to figure out the details...I know I don't have too much more time to bounce around career paths.  

I am also struggling with contacts and have been thinking of getting some sort of corrective eye surgery.  

I don't think I can continue TTC and get corrective eye surgery...I think they tell you to wait 6mo after surgery, or better yet be done having kids, since pregnancy can sometimes impact your vision.  I feel like I have to put something on hold to accomplish one of the other things.  Would you put off TTC to focus on career and maybe eye surgery?  Would you put off fixing your eyes so you can give a fertility specialists a chance?  I feel like time is slipping away.