I give up!!!!!

Breanna
I have been on the pill for 5 years and stopped taking them. It has been 8 months off the pill and TTC and I'm getting more and more frustrated. I know everyone is different and it can take months - years to get pregnant after being on birth control. 
With me gaining a little bit of weight, and people asking if I'm pregnant, I get my hopes up, only to be shut down by my results. I've been bummed out because my fiancé and I really want a baby, and I really wanted to surprise him this year for Father's Day. Well, hopefully soon I can surprise him. 
How long have you ladies been TTC?