newlyweds who need help!

Hey! I've been married about a year. Neither of us had ever have sex before our wedding night! I love that and I love being with my husband, but lately I've been getting frustrated. He always gets to finish, but he finishes so quickly that I don't get to :/ I've never orgasmed and I'm going a little crazy! Im so horny and it starts out so great but I don't know how he can go longer- he can't crontrol when he cums and he's not good at oral... I'm just feeling sad cuz I love my hubby so much!! Please tips appreciated and please be nice!