sex after episiotomy

Hi ladies, just wondering if anybody who had an episiotomy during their labour has had sex again yet? I'm four weeks pp and feel like I want to try but I'm a bit concerned that it might hurt. Everything feels healed down there but when I've looked online people said you have to wait till six or eight weeks and even then it's very painful after an episiotomy. it's making me nervous! Anyone had any good experiences or is it just a case of waiting and hoping for the best?