So I need some help here from someone who has been through it. My husband is now saying he won't sign the papers and I honestly don't know where to go from here. He got another girl pregnant less than a week after we separated and now is saying shit like this? It makes me sick to think this could have been over with a long time ago but he doesn't want to? Ugh. I want to lash out but I know it'll only make things worse so I came here.. any help I can get would be awesome..