MIL ISSUES!!! (IF I DONT MAKE SENSE ITS CAUSE IM REALLY FUCKING MAD & I AM SORRY)

I got married a month ago. Before I got married we was having issues who' were gonna be there at our ceremony! But my mil was MAKING IT ABOUT HERSELF! At first she wanted me to wear this dress that really made me look like a table cloth. So my SIL help me pick it out. My mil got mad & said "you look fat but ok you can wear that but I think you should wear the other dress." Then we plan to have a family dinner. She "OFFERS" to pay mines & my husband she told us "It's my wedding gift for you guys" we didn't care we was gonna pay our own but she kept offering so my husband said ok. Then she texted me "I DONT THINK YOUR FAMILY SHOULD COME CAUSE YOU HAVE TO MUCH & YOUR FAMILY MAKES TO MUCH NOISE" i got mad cause we only had 7 on my side to come eat dinner They're not kids they're adults! So I said "No my family coming you have 13 people coming plus your mom & step father! It's not fair that my family can't come" she told me "I'm the mom I make the decision" I didn't want to flip so I ignore the text. Then me & my husband decided to just have a small honey moon at the hotel by OURSELF ! Since it's a problem OF BIG FAMILY. My husband told my MIL if she could ask his brother if we could his room since he works there & has his own room. Then my husband told me MY MIL IS GONNA PAY OUR ROOM AS A GIFT BUT SHE GOTTA BE THERE TO WATCH US! I said NO CAUSE it's our honey
Moon & I don't want a chaperone. Then my husband said we should just let her pay. I said ok whatever. Then my MIL texted me "we should have a potluck at the hotel" I said ok that's good cause my dad & brother them really wanted to spend time with us to" she said "ok tell your dad" I told my dad , my dad was so happy. He bought food drinks plates he took two days to make laulaus & he made big PANS of food for both our family! Then she texted me the day before my wedding "Your family can't come you have like 30 of your family coming & it's a problem" I told her "My dad made PLATTERS OF FOOD FOR US ! NOW YOU TELL ME THIS! & WE ONLY HAVE 7 COMING MY OTHER SIBLINGS HAVE WORK! " she told me "IM THE MOM ! I Make THE DECISION! I DONT WANT MY SON TO GET FIRED! SO TELL YOUR DAD! ILL TELL MY FAMILY TO GO HOME!" 
I told my dad. My DAD GOT SO UPSET REALLY UPSET ! I CRIED CAUSE I LOVE MY DAD & HE PUT EFFORT TO DO SOMETHING FOR US LIKE FOOD DRINKS HE EVEN GAVE US  MONEY SO THAT WE COULD STAY ANOTHER DAY at the hotel. Anyways on our wedding day after the ceremony we went to the hotel. Comes to find out AlL MY HUSBAND FAMILY WAS THERRE ! MY HUSBAND BROTHER TOLD ME "Where's your family? " I said "What you mean? Your mom said they couldn't come & told me you guys wasn't coming" he told me "That's a lie. She said that we having a potluck she texted us in a group message! " I was upset !!!! I FELT LIKE SHE DIDNT WANT MY FAMILY THERE! Then recently I found out SHE PLANNED TO DO THAT! I am mad cause MY DAD MADE PLATTERS OF FOOD & TOOK TWO DAYS WITH MY UNCLES TO MAKE THE LAULAUS' BUT LATELY I HAVE THE URGE TO FUCKING PUNCH HER FUCKING FACE! Even her daughters!!!!! 
& OH MY FAMILY CLEANS UP THEIR MESS ESPECIALLY WHEN MY DAD IS VERY STRICK ON BEFORE LEAVING WE CLEAN UP THE PLACE. 
WEVE TRIED STANDING UP TO HER SHE SAID "IM THE MON RESPECT YOUR MOM! OR YOUR GOING TO HELL' " on our honeymoon DIDNT FELT LIKE A HONEYMOON ! CAUSE THAT BITCH IS ALWAYS COMPLAINING WERE DRINKING TO MUCH! WE DONT EVER HAVE THE TIME TOGTHER HE ALWAYS WORK! I ALWAYS BABYSITTING my siblings kids & MY HUSBAND SIBLINGS KIDS! TBH! I REALLY WANT TO FUCKING PUNCH HER TF OUT SOON ! SHE A KISS ASS BITCH! & WATCHES WHAT I POST HER & HER DAUGHTERS! I DONT EVEN POST ANYTHING ON MY IG & SC EXCEPT OF MY HUSBAND & DOGS! SHE TRIED SO HARD TO GET ME & HUSBAND TO GET RID OF MY DOGS! IM SORRY BUT I WANT TO MURDER HER SHE GETTING ON MY FUCKING NERVES ! This is the only app I can rage my temper