Life is life

It's hard being a mum and working full time, not forgetting my partner works Mon to Fri. Everyday I make sure the house is clean and tidy, basically washing up, hoovering, tidy the kitchen, tidy our room and our little man room everyday. He comes home tired and has a nap most of the time. When I want a nap he's like ' why didn't you have one when little man went for a nap' or he wakes me up. I want to know how many mum's out their do everything they can to make men happy, and their just not. Arguement after arguement of him saying ' you need to do a bit more around the house' and 'why haven't you done the bin bags. Wtf, like how, when I'm home, I feed my son, play with him, clear up after him. I do 2x effort then my partner does, just had enough and want to make everything better. I do anything to make him happy but he's making me sad and sometimes even cry. He moans at me for sitting there watching my catch up and then go to work and leave him with everything... which is actually maybe the washing up or maybe the bin is fall, once in a while I don't do some housework. I beginning to give up on life. He work's hard and hates looking after our son even when I go to work, I worried that he fall asleep and little one might just hurt himself. Saturday's are our days out as family time and he's the one who sleeps in till 3 in the afternoon and then when we out argues why I didn't feed little man at home before we came out.