HELP!!!!

So recently I broke up with my boyfriend of a year. He did some stuff that completely eliminated the possibility of me getting back with him (he didn't cheat though). Before I met him I wasn't a big relationship person but I took a chance Recently I've been talking to him and it's obvious he still wants to be with me, but that's not what I want. However I do want a f*ck buddy, and because I'm a virgin I see no better choice. How do I get him to switch up so he doesn't have feelings involved, or am I just making a bad decision?