I am 15 weeks pregnant and am having serious intimacy issues. When I was around 9-10 weeks sex started to become very uncomfortable I was having bad pressure and it wasn't pleasurable or comfortable enough to even get through it, and we kinda just stopped trying. About 2 weeks ago we tried having sex and again it was really uncomfortable so we stopped but the next morning I had serious cramping and spotting and went to the Dr. everything with baby was ok but I had to be on pelvic rest for 10 days, so no sex. The 10 days are up and we tried again tonight. My anxiety was through the roof. I was literally shaking, I was so worried it was going to hurt or cause spotting that I couldn't even relax. When he finally got in I felt a sharp uncomfortable pain and just had to have him stop. I'm so lucky that he's never upset with me or been mad he's very understanding and caring but I'm crying and just frustrated that I can't have sex. My dr says it's a normal side effect and should go away but it's been almost 5 months with no enjoyable sex and i dont know how much longer we can both go. I'm becoming extremely frustrated with my body and I just feel bad in general, for him and me. I dont know what to do :/