vagina probs

So for about 2 weeks now I've been having major issues down under.  I've had been feeling a little itchy down there so of course I investigated.  I found a cut on my perinieum, and it was quite large.  Then I found smaller cuts around my vulva, and just underneath the clitoris.  Some began to form along my buttcrack too! There is one at the very beginning of the crack, and then more forming in my butthole.  I then realized that the itching I was experiencing was definitely coming from those healing wounds.  But then just yesterday I discovered the the vulva is very red and the right lower part of my labia (close to my vulva) was swollen and one specific area was tender.  I looked closely and it almost looks like there may be a small cut in the area, but I am unsure.  I have no idea as to what could be bothering me down there.  I don't wash with soap down there.  I thought I might have an allergy to the toilet paper I use(Angel Soft) ANYBODY PLEASE HELP ME!  IF YOU HAVE EXPERIENCED SIMILAR THINGS PLEASE TELL ME BECAUSE I AM CLUELESS AND I CANT GO TO THE DOCTOR BECAUSE MY MOM WILL NOT BE VERY HAPPY AND WILL ASSHME THE WORST!  HELP