No HL Surge

TTC #1, cycle 1 after being on BC for 13 years. I think I am putting the cart before the horse but I have been using Glow and FF. I've had all the signs - cramps, backaches and egg white CM. However, I have not had one + on my opk strips. Glow moves my fertile day to the next day but FF says I ovulated without the + opk. I am wondering if I have either not ovulated or worse... That I won't! I am really hoping I am doing all this right but it already has me a bit tense!