My husband and I tried for about 9 months to conceive. I finally stopped trying and got a Mirena. But about two weeks ago I got fed up with it because it made my periods so long. So I pulled it. But I didn't tell my husband. I'm 42 and want another child. I have 1 but my husband doesn't have any. He used to say he just wanted 1 of his own too. I know he'd be thrilled if I got pregnant but for some reason I'm scared to tell him I took it out. I guess I'm afraid he will want me to get another. I just want 1 more baby. And I feel selfish for saying that because Heavenly Father already gave me one. Ugh... I'm frustrated.