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So hubby and I have been together for 3 years, and I'm this time we've had an adventurous sex life. He knows I love kink and is happy to oblige, but I want him to truly dominate me, and not just in bed. How can I help him to become a true dom when he isn't sure he can give me commands?

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I'm a long time submissive who married a guy with Dom potential but who wasn't actually in the scene. We had been married for a couple years and had a kid before I even brought it up to him. (Kid came first, oops)

Anyways, all I did was tell him I'm interested in having a 24/7 D/s relationship, had to show him a few articles and things for him to fully understand my exact wants and needs and the ret was all up to him and his comfort levels. The hardest part is sitting back and waiting for him to be Dominant.

Once you've explained it to him and he is interested (and most men usually are) start by offering him blow jobs randomly without anything in return. Wait on him, fetch him drinks, make him dinner, be submissive. You can't just ask him to be Dominant without being submissive first.

We now live a 24/7 D/s lifestyle and couldn't be happier.

Good luck.

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I would love to know too

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When he gives you the simplest commands like "go to sleep now, baby girl" or like idk "rise and shine" let him know you really like it. It'll make him want to do it more :)

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