am I gay?

Question

Those of you who are lesbian or bi,
How did you know if you were truly gay? 
I've been with my fiancé for two years, I am 18 weeks pregnant. I love him so very much and am very happy with him.
But sexually- I watch porn. Lesbian porn. And I'm wondering if I might be gay- or if I'm just bi.

Answer

A lot of straight women like lesbian porn. It doesn't automatically mean you're a lesbian. If you are attracted to your fiancé who is a male you are not a lesbian. I mean you could be bisexual, but I wouldn't come to that conclusion solely off of you liking lesbian porn.

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You don't have to be bi or gay to watch lesbian porn, what you get off to doesn't really go with who you are. I know straight girls who watch gay man porn, I myself only watch lesbian porn and I'm straight too

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Just because you watch lesbian porn does not mean you are gay.........

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I am bi, I've never watched lesbian porn. I love my husband, and he knows I'm bi. When you find yourself checking out ladies with the same mentality that you check out guys, you might be bi

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You could be bi since you're in love with your fiancé. In which case there's nothing to do about it since you're happily with him 🤷🏻‍♀️ I'm a happily married bisexual woman married to a man, it's not like I do anything sexually with anyone else lol

Answer

Are you attracted to women and could/would have sex and a relationship with a woman? How about men?

If yes to both, you're bi. If yes to men but no to women, you're straight. If yes to women but no to men, you're gay.

But there are different sexualities too. Try googling them to see what you identify with.

am I gay?

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