unhappy & confused....

I am lost... & what I mean by that is that I have lost myself, unsure as to what my future holds. I have been with my husband for 5yrs married but almost 10yrs total. I think I lost a part of myself after our miscarriage.. I wanted a baby so much then for whatever reason unknown it was taken from us. We worked through things & life seemed to pick back up from where it left off. I was getting better & got the help we needed. We purchased our very first home & found ourselves again!! But lately haven't spent as much time together due to work or when we do it's mostly spent with him being on his phone. We have disconnected from one another & I feel distant.. I crave his attention & it feels like I don't get it. I started doing things for myself to clear my mind like walking again, doing things I love bc the love I do want I have not been getting. I need advice so please help!!!