Boyfriend Going to Strip Club

Desirae
My boyfriends 18th birthday will be this December and we'll be dating for 2 years in November. I've made it very clear that I do not want him To go to a strip club but he insists that he's going. I do have a body complex problem and I'm very insecure so other people grinding all up on him is not an image I enjoy. I've always struggled with him looking at other girls because I just find it disrespectful, I guess I'm just a type monogamous of girl. Everytime the topic comes up we get into a fight about it. I just want to know if any of you feel the same way... I just think that he should respect me enough not to go.. and I have a feeling he will just go and do it and not tell me, or he'll tell me and I'll get upset and he'll still go.