a question about rape and molestation.

I want to ask a question. It may be uncomfortable, but I really want to know. If you have ever been molested or raped please answer this. 
How did you feel when you were in the same room as your attacker? 
What did you do? 
Would you want to be in the same room as them? 
Would you take food from them? Or rides? 
Would you be okay to have them on social media? 
I would love to know because I know someone accusing a loved one of doing that to them. But didn't say anything until it was discovered through text. They didn't mention their name, but is trying to accuse them.